Depending on the date and location, the weekend is led by David deBardelaben-Phillips on his own or co-facilitated with Clare Carr or Bentley deBardelaben-Phillips. The facilitator team for each workshop is announced with its event details.
David deBardelaben-Phillips
Certified Imago Relationship Facilitator • Certified Exceptional Relationship Mentor
David is passionate about helping couples build stronger, healthier relationships. He thrives in sessions where he can facilitate open communication, foster emotional intimacy and guide partners toward deeper understanding and connection.
He has completed Gottman Level 1 training and is also an Advanced Certified Core Energetics Practitioner.
Bentley deBardelaben-Phillips
Ordained Minister • Certified in Exceptional Relationships
Bentley often partners with their husband, David, to work with couples. They deeply value commitment and believe strong relationships require continuous effort, understanding and intentionality.
Having faced their own ups and downs, they know firsthand that love isn’t just about chemistry — it’s about choosing each other every day, even when things get tough.
Clare Carr
Advanced Certified Core Energetics Practitioner • Certified Exceptional Relationship Mentor
Clare is an ordained Helix minister from New York City who often partners with David to work with couples. She has also completed specialized training in Imago Relationships.
David and Clare share a deep bond built on mutual respect, shared passion and years of working side by side. Both practitioners and educators, they are a dynamic duo dedicated to helping couples thrive.