Private Couples Intensive Retreat

Let Heart to Heart Couples Counseling Help Reimagine Your Relationship!

Whether you’re navigating a crisis, rebuilding after betrayal, or seeking a deeper commitment—this  immersive retreat offers powerful, focused healing for couples ready to grow.  

No two couples are the same—so we tailor the experience just for you and the the unique needs of your relationship.

Why Choose a Private Couples Intensive?

Move your relationship into its next chapter.

This retreat provides the time and space to move beyond surface issues and into lasting transformation. In 2–3 days, couples achieve what could take months in traditional counseling or coaching.

Common Issues We Explore in Intensives:

  • Communication breakdowns and recurring conflict
  • Disconnection and emotional distance
  • Differences in sexual desire or intimacy needs
  • Grief, loss, and major life transitions
  • Financial stress and differing money values
  • The lingering effects of unresolved trauma
  • Family of origin dynamics impacting the relationship
  • Cross-cultural, racial, or religious differences
  • Challenges related to trust, including infidelity or betrayal
What to Expect

A Customized Experience Unique to Your Relationship.

  • Format: 10+ hours over 2–3 days

  • Location: In-person.  Couples are encouraged to step away from their normal routine and home to create sacred space.  Staying at a local B&B or hotel is highly recommended.

  • Session Style: Includes couples sessions, individual work, and restorative breaks

  • Follow-Up: A 90 minute post-intensive session (usually 2–4 weeks later)

Communicate Differences with Love & Respect

Experience the Power of Dialogue

This method fosters connection even across long-standing divides.  The Dialogue process helps you:

  • Listen to hear your partner not to just respond
  • Express emotions with clarity
  • Understand your partner beyond projections
  • Integrate thinking and feeling
  • Reduce reactivity and increase empathy
  • Understand your partner’s world
  • Slow down and take each other in
Is This Right for You?

This might be your moment if you and your partner:

  • Need to repair after a period of emotional disconnection
  • Want deeper emotional and physical intimacy
  • Are in a stable relationship but want to strengthen your connection
  • Are recovering from a major life transition or shared trauma
  • Are trying to reconnect after becoming parents or empty nesters
  • Have differing desires around sex, money, or long-term goals
  • Are healing from infidelity, broken trust, or emotional betrayal
  • Are at a crossroads and unsure whether to stay or separate
  • Believe your relationship is worth fighting for—but don’t know how
  • Are navigating cultural, racial, or religious differences
If you feel a shift is needed - this is the space to create it!

Your Mentor & Guide...

David deBardelaben-Phillips

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David deBardelaben-Phillips is passionate about helping couples build stronger, healthier relationships. He thrives in sessions where he can facilitate open communication, foster emotional intimacy, and guide partners toward deeper understanding and connection.

David has specialized training to work with couples.  He is a Certified Imago Relationship Facilitator, Certified Exceptional Relationship Mentor, and has completed Gottman Level 1 training, as well as being an Advanced Certified Core Energetics Practitioner. 

Beyond technique, David genuinely enjoys seeing couples heal and thrive, celebrating each milestone—big or small—as they move toward a more fulfilling partnership. 

David is the Founder and President of Heart to Heart Couples Counseling &  Energetic Awakenings in Cleveland, OH. He is a leader in mind, body, spirit healing. David works with clients to identify roots causes that prevent them from being their full self and helps them to take actions to achieve personal transformation. His main goal is to help each client Live Life Fully! In his private practice, David works with individuals, couples, and groups. He is also a workshop leader and group facilitator for many organizations and is a senior faculty member at the Institute of Core Energetics based in NYC.