Getting the Love You Want is an internationally recognized workshop designed to connect, refresh, & restore the love & connection within your relationship.
Facilitators David deBardelaben-Phillips & Clare Carr are drawing upon Imago Relationship Therapy, founded by Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt, to create an exciting weekend experience. Imago offers couples practical tools to deepen intimacy, strengthen friendship, and transform conflict into opportunities for connection and healing. This weekend will provide powerful insights and guided practices to help you build a more conscious, loving relationship.
What You Will Learn & Experience
- Discover the magic of why you were drawn to each other in the first place.
- Try out the Imago Dialogue — a fun, safe way to really hear and be heard.
- Turn everyday conflicts into opportunities for closeness and growth.
- Rekindle the spark with simple practices of joy, laughter, and connection.
- Create a safe space where love, empathy, and trust can flourish.
- Step into a more conscious, intentional, and joy-filled partnership.
Location: Sheffield Village (Cleveland suburb), OH
2026 Dates & Times:
- Friday, June 26 – 6pm to 9pm
- Saturday, June 27 – 9:00am to 6:30pm
- Sunday, June 28 – 9:00am to 5:00pm
Investment (per couple):
- Early Bird $895 (before May 26)
- Standard $995
Location Details:
- Yoga Loft in the Village
- 5445 Detroit Road
- Sheffield Village, OH
Location: New York City, NY
- Chelsea Neighborhood
2026 Dates & Times:
- Next dates announced soon
Investment (per couple):
- Early Bird $895 (one month prior)
- Standard $995
Your Facilitators
Clare Carr and David deBardelaben-Phillips have journeyed together for years as they both became Advanced Core Energetics Practitioners, Exceptional Relationship Mentors, Imago Professional Relationship Facilitators, and Faculty for the Institute of Core Energetics.
This dynamic duo is committed to helping couples understand how their individual histories impact their relationship, improve their connection & intimacy, and create shared dreams & meaning for their relationship. Their goal is to help you connect, refresh & restore.
Clare 203-979-2222 or clarecarr811@gmail.com
David 216-544-9472 or david@energeticawakenings.com
Testimonials
We honestly received more than we expected on this couples retreat with Clare and David. Their level of expertise and compassion created a safe and nurturing space for us to address some big challenges in our 36 year marriage. We both felt safe enough to be vulnerable together, and with the group. Thank you David and Clare for helping us learn the tools to be kinder and stay present, especially when times are tough.
Regina & George
David and Clare were vulnerable and caring. They held space for us and were truly masterful at lovingly guiding us toward healthier modes of communicating when challenges arose. I’m eternally grateful for them for making a real and meaningful impact in how my wife and I view, understand, appreciate, and communicate with each other.

Ryan
It’s an opportunity to get to know yourself and how you show up in your relationship. (Brian) I am pleased to have had this opportunity and thank David and Clare for their expertise and guidance to make this a meaningful weekend. (Laura)
Brian & Laura
This is a beautiful experience that immediately helped me feel even closer to my partner and the dialogue became useful almost immediately. (Alex) The workshop covered a lot in one weekend and was paced very well with explanations to help really understand the topics. (Elisabeth)
Alex & Elisabeth
The workshop was intense and emotional but it was also fun and filled with bonding opportunities with my partner. (Jenn) The workshop was great. David and Clare are very helpful. They do a great job! (Matt)

Jenn & Matt
David & Clare create a powerful space that allows safety to open into deep healing. Their intuitive awareness allows them to follow the groups changing needs creating a unique experience for everyone involved.

Sarah
Workshop Facilitators
David deBardelaben-Phillips is the Founder and President of Energetic Awakenings in Cleveland, OH. He is a leader in mind, body, spirit healing. David works with clients to identify roots causes that prevent them from being their full self and to take actions to achieve personal transformation. His main goal is to help each client Live Life Fully!
In his private practice, David works with individuals, couples, and groups. Much of his work focuses on authenticity with the goal of being genuine, real, and true to oneself. It’s about being honest and transparent in your actions, behaviors, and interactions
He is also a workshop leader and group facilitator for many organizations dealing with challenging topics such as racism & LGBTQ cultural competency. David holds his Master of Education from Cleveland State University with a focus on Adult Learning & Development. He is an Advanced Certified Core Energetics Practitioner, Exceptional Relationship Mentor, Reiki Master, and Certified Coach. He is currently a faculty member at the New York Institute of Core Energetics. In addition, David is currently working on his Trauma Release Exercises (TRE) certification and his Imago Certified Relationship Facilitator certification.
Clare Carr is an Advanced Certified Core Energetics Practitioner, an Exceptional Relationship Mentor as well as an ordained Helix Healing Works Minister in New York City. Clare is on the faculty of the New York Institute of Core Energetics; training new practitioners and bringing her creativity to the Core community while supporting the expansion of this integral somatic process. Uniquely combining Clare’s experience in the corporate world and her love for the dramatic arts, Clare created a network focused on embodied healing for dancers, actors and bodymovers. Clare specializes in helping with the challenges of self-acceptance and helps her clients evolve as they move through all stages, ages and transitions in life.
Clare’s practice focuses on individual, couples and powerful group experiences. She is currently in the process of completing her certification as a relational Imago Facilitator as a complement to her Exceptional Relationship Mentoring. Drawing on her earliest experiences with addiction, Clare is no stranger to conflict resolution and the importance of honest and direct communication. Clare welcomes the challenge of relationship healing and facilitates a hope-filled and creative process.
CLEVELAND / INDEPENDENCE, OH AREA ACCOMODATIONS
WALKING DISTANCE TO WORKSHOP
CANDLEWOOD SUITES
WALKING DISTANCE TO WORKSHOP
HOLIDAY INN
6001 Rockside Rd Independence, Ohio 44131 United States
(216) 524-8050
5 MINUTE DRIVE TO WORKSHOP
EMBASSAY SUITES
5800 Rockside Woods Blvd N, Independence, OH 44131
(216)986-9900
